Happy Thanksgiving!!!

I hope all of you have an amazing Thanksgiving tomorrow, filled with family, friends and happy, full bellies!

From me to you; a few tips…..don’t forget to “bunny” up so you don’t have to wash dishes, make sure you grab some “Thanksgiving Turkey” pants, don’t get your head stuck in a door by being late, any English trifles you encounter may or may not have beef sauteed with peas and onions (beware), and make sure to tell your friends and family that you love them. 🙂

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xoxox

Mary

Last 90 Days: Check In!

Roll call!  Who’s still very much into the Last 90 Days Challenge?  Me! Me! Me!

So, but really, how’s everyone doing?  I am still going strong!  Sure, I’ve had days where I didn’t get all 70 ounces of water, but came really close.  I’ve had 2 days where I found myself eating tortilla chips (I gave up all chips because they are a major trigger for me!), and I’ve had 2 days where I just laid around and didn’t hop on the treadmill, or trampoline or do pilates, because I knew my body needed some grace.  Overall, I’m pretty stinkin’ proud of myself!

The thing that surprises me the most is that I actually LIKE getting up earlier.  I get up about an hour earlier, but what I’ve found is that by the time I make a cup of coffee,  let the dog out, feed her and get to my office, I only have about 35 minutes of actual time for myself.  So I think I need to make some adjustments, but I never ever thought I would be one to get up an hour earlier.  I fought it for so many years and this challenge just made me realize I should give it a try to say I actually tried it!  BOOM!  Love it.  Not only that, but most days Brayden gets up earlier now too.  He’s our early riser anyways, but he likes to get up early now to have some time to fiddle around and relax before school.

As a reminder, the 5 concepts that go along with the last 90 days are:

5-to-Thrive

This is not a weight loss challenge, this is an “I don’t give up on myself” challenge.  It’s all about showing yourself you can commit to something for 90 days.  Obviously, the hope is that you can make these new habits stick well beyond the last 90 days of the year.

If you are participating, I’d love to hear how you are doing!  What tips can you share?

Have a great weekend, all!  Make good choices and take care of you!

xoxox

october 2019

 

International OCD Awareness Week

OCD week

I’ve recently been made aware that October 13-19th is International OCD Awareness Week.

I’m pretty excited about this, because if nothing else, people need to understand what REAL OCD is, and how debilitating it is.  Therefore, I’m going to be posting this week, with tips and coping skills I have learned (from professionals for the most part) over the 6 years I’ve had Contamination OCD.

–Tips that are tangible for anyone suffering from an anxiety disorder.

–Quick effective ways to feel some relief.

–Practices to master that help in panic situations.

–Ways to explain to those around you what OCD is, and how they can help.

 

Join me this week, friends, in educating yourself about TRUE OCD, and what it really is, and how you can help your friends/family/coworkers that have this debilitating anxiety disorder.

 

xoxox

Mary

 

Last 90 Days!!

It’s here, friends!  I can’t believe that I’m now “that person” that gets really excited for challenges on the internet, but it’s all happening.

For those of you who do not know what the Last 90 Days challenge is, let me school you a bit.  (Also check the bottom of this post for resources)

It’s simple really…..we challenge ourselves to live the last 90 days of the year as intentionally as we did the first 30 of the year.  Along with that intention, there are 5 basic principles that run right alongside it.  Those 5 principles are called “5 to Thrive”.  They are:

  1.  Drink half your body weight in ounces of water.  Every day.
  2.  Give up one food you know that you shouldn’t be eating. If you eat a very clean diet already, consider adding a new healthy food every day.
  3.  Jot down 10 things you are grateful for each day.  This could be as simple as coffee, seeing the sunrise or your kids not complaining about dinner. 😉
  4. Move your body for 30 minutes a day.  This could be power walking the aisles of Target, jumping on the trampoline with your kids, walking the dog, running the stairs in your home, etc.
  5.  Get up one hour earlier and use that time for YOU!  PS, yes, this means you should go to bed one hour earlier as well.

5-to-Thrive

Last year was my first time joining this challenge.  I decided not to partake in the up an hour earlier part of the challenge, only because in the spring and summer of 2018 my severe panic attacks wrecked havoc on what used to be a pretty great sleep schedule.  My sleep still wasn’t the greatest by October when the challenge started, so I decided I would let myself sleep.

Last year I decided to give up cow’s milk, unless it was baked into something like a dessert or casserole.  In doing that, I realized I consumed hardly any cheese, which also felt really great.  If I had cheese, it was buffalo mozzarella (cow’s milk free) or goat cheese.  I would eat pizzas with Daiya dairy free cheese on them yes, they are actually good.  Cow’s milk always tended to make me bloated and congested feeling, so it was a nice feeling to know I could give it up!  Today, I still hardly consume cow’s milk.  Occasionally I’ll have a mini blizzard from Dairy Queen, feta cheese on my salad or a regular piece of pizza, but that’s it!  I even take the slices of cheese off my frozen eggwiches I buy.

As far as writing down 10 things to be grateful for, my water consumption and moving my body….let’s say last year I gave it a good effort but probably ended up with a solid B-/C+ grade in the end.  I found myself not drinking the water at work because I didn’t want to have to use the bathroom so much since it was the beginning of cold and flu season (OCD strikes again).  And though I did try to move in some capacity everyday for about 45 minutes, I would say it ended up being more like 4 days a week.  My gratitude practice was pretty lack luster to be honest.  I started out great, and by the end of November I was down to writing in my gratitude journal maybe 3 days a week.

But this year….this time is different.  I don’t want to let myself down.  I also really need a boost in productivity.  I have so many different projects going that I always feel like I run out of time and run late everywhere I need to go.

So here are my goals for this year……

  1. Get up an hour earlier, at LEAST 3 days a week.
  2. Cut out chips.  Chips of all kinds.  They are such a trigger for me.  I can’t just have a handful.  I have to eat half the bag, then feel bad about it for 2 days.  They’re going.
  3. Drinking my water, all of it!  Washing those impurities out of my body!
  4. Moving every day, for 30-45 minutes.  Doing Pilates more alongside my treadmill time.
  5. Being a lot more intentional with my gratitude practice.  I have a lot to be grateful for and I’m forever an optimist and looking out for silver linings.  Now I just need to put the pen to the paper for it.

If anyone would like to join me in this challenge, message me or leave a comment on this post!  I’m putting together a Facebook group where we can all hold ourselves and each other accountable, and talk about our triumphs and struggles as a group!

I can’t wait to watch myself succeed, as silly as that may sound.  We only have one body, friends.  It’s time to make it physically and mentally fit for the rest of your life.

Good luck to all those participating…may your purpose pull you through!

xoxo

Resources:

What is Last 90 Days?

Last 90 Days Tracker

 

 

 

Friday Five!

Happy Friday, loves!!

Today I’m sharing my five favorite apps I can’t be without!

1. Instagram

I mean…did it happen if you didn’t document it on the ‘gram? I’ve always been more of an IG girl than FB. Sorry FB, but all the forwarded jokes and messages are just clutter to me. I use FB to connect and stay in touch with friends and family, of course, but I prefer the look and ease of Instagram. Plus, pictures. Lots of pictures.

2. Target Cartwheel

Do you guys have this downloaded? I’m assuming all of my readers are Target shoppers, since we are friends, right? I’ve had this app since it first became available. Now they also have Target Circle, which is connected to your Target account just like Cartwheel! All I know is when I check out via store or online checkout, I ALWAYS have a credit to apply to my total, along with my Cartwheel offers. Target just keeps getting better!

3. MyFitnessPal

I’m a tad obsessed with numbers. I mean, just a tad. By a tad, I mean a lot! I wear a FitBit 24-7. (Santa, please bring me an Apple Watch for Christmas so I can jump into the 21st century with the rest of the world, mmmmk). My FitBit is connected to MyFitnessPal, so all my workouts and steps transfer over from FitBit to MFP so I can see how many calories I can consume without turning into a double wide. I log all my calories. I know some people feel negatively about logging calories but it helps me see what I’m working with. MFP keeps me enlightened on what my macros are all day long so I know when to add more protein or cut back on fats. It’s very helpful!

4. Calm

How many of you struggle with just finding 5 minutes in the day to take a freaking breath? Last summer I downloaded this app to help with my anxiety. Little did I know that I would be unlocking this GINORMOUS portable resource of so much goodness! I actually love it so much that I pay the 60.00 per year for the full version. Don’t worry though, the free version has access to a ton of meditations, breathing exercises, music and even sleep stories. My anxiety was so major that I wanted the in depth meditation series’s. Now that my anxiety is semi under control, I use this app on road trips when get anxious or if I ever feel a feeling of panic start to come on. It’s pretty amazing!

5. Chick Fil-A One App/Starbucks

Like how I combined these two? I cheated since I technically have 6 apps here, but these are the two restaurant apps that I feel offer the best rewards and give back the most to their customers! Also, these are really the only places I go if I’m eating out haha. My favorite days are when I can get a free coffee and free medium fruit salad at Starbucks and Chick Fil-A, respectively. 😊. These apps are definitely worth the download!! You may actually be losing money if you don’t have them.

Alright guys! That’s all I have for today!!! What are your favorite apps and should I download them??

Have a great weekend!!!!

Xoxox

Mary

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