Last 90 Days: Check In!

Roll call!  Who’s still very much into the Last 90 Days Challenge?  Me! Me! Me!

So, but really, how’s everyone doing?  I am still going strong!  Sure, I’ve had days where I didn’t get all 70 ounces of water, but came really close.  I’ve had 2 days where I found myself eating tortilla chips (I gave up all chips because they are a major trigger for me!), and I’ve had 2 days where I just laid around and didn’t hop on the treadmill, or trampoline or do pilates, because I knew my body needed some grace.  Overall, I’m pretty stinkin’ proud of myself!

The thing that surprises me the most is that I actually LIKE getting up earlier.  I get up about an hour earlier, but what I’ve found is that by the time I make a cup of coffee,  let the dog out, feed her and get to my office, I only have about 35 minutes of actual time for myself.  So I think I need to make some adjustments, but I never ever thought I would be one to get up an hour earlier.  I fought it for so many years and this challenge just made me realize I should give it a try to say I actually tried it!  BOOM!  Love it.  Not only that, but most days Brayden gets up earlier now too.  He’s our early riser anyways, but he likes to get up early now to have some time to fiddle around and relax before school.

As a reminder, the 5 concepts that go along with the last 90 days are:

5-to-Thrive

This is not a weight loss challenge, this is an “I don’t give up on myself” challenge.  It’s all about showing yourself you can commit to something for 90 days.  Obviously, the hope is that you can make these new habits stick well beyond the last 90 days of the year.

If you are participating, I’d love to hear how you are doing!  What tips can you share?

Have a great weekend, all!  Make good choices and take care of you!

xoxox

october 2019

 

Five Quick but Extremely Therapeutic Ways to Battle OCD

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Hi friends!

Now that we have discussed what OCD is, what types are out in the world and how diagnosis usually works; I wanted to give my 5 best, most helpful, tips on overcoming an intrusive thought spurred on by the OCD.

These are tips I’ve picked up in my years of therapy and through the many books and documentaries I’ve read and watched.  I truly hope they help.

1. Be present.  When an intrusive thought “attacks”, try to take yourself out of the situation mentally.  Be mindful of every single detail of your surroundings and try to focus on this.  What’s the air like?  Is it a pretty day?  What color is that tree?  I wonder when that field will be harvested (sorry, Indiana girl here).  Force yourself to take that thought, pick it up, and move it aside.  Sit with it, be ok with it, and move it aside by thinking grounding thoughts.

2. Breathe.  It sounds ridiculously simple, but it’s life changing.  Breathing calms the body down like nothing else can.  Focus on your breath.  Breathe in through your nose for a count of 5, release through your mouth for a count of 5.  Do this about 10 times to regain control of your emotions and thoughts.

3. Pray.  I’m Christian, so this is one I use a lot.  However you choose to be spiritual and practice that; bring those tools to the table for this one.  Pray for relief and understanding, pray for a sense of calm and confidence. Don’t repeat the same prayer, try to keep it simple, to the point and mindful.

4. Write the fear down.  Do a “brain dump” of all the feelings you have at that very moment.  Why does that thought make you feel that way?  What brought the thought on?  How do you see yourself getting out of the situation or putting the thought aside.  Treat the thought like it’s a person if that helps.  Give it a name.  It may sound silly, but our brains acknowledgement a feeling better when it’s given a name.  What do you think you have to do, step by step, to defeat this feeling/person/thought?

5. Ground yourself with gratitude.  No really, it works in a moment of fear like nothing else.  When you feel the intrusive thoughts boiling to the surface, stop them by looking around you and seeing the things you are grateful for.  Are you alive and healthy?  Are you at work, out with friends, driving your own car?  Do you have kids?  Can you afford the privilege of college?  Do you have an animal you love? Close friendships?  Supportive people in your life?  Think of them, think of all of it.

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xoxox

Mary

 

OCD Awareness Week :Diagnosing OCD

Happy Friday, compadres! Today I wanted to share a little about how OCD is typically diagnosed (in my experience) and what to push for when you see a doctor.  I initially diagnosed myself.  Yep.  How scary is that?  I was on maternity leave with Mason and googled my symptoms/thoughts.  I had an advantage I guess, […]

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OCD Awareness Week-How Do You Know? (Types)

Hi friends! This week I wanted to dive into all things OCD.  Today, let’s start with the basics.  By the way, in case you didn’t know, OCD is short for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.  This is NOT what you see on TV, this is NOT what you see on cute shirts at Target, this is NOT […]

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International OCD Awareness Week

I’ve recently been made aware that October 13-19th is International OCD Awareness Week. I’m pretty excited about this, because if nothing else, people need to understand what REAL OCD is, and how debilitating it is.  Therefore, I’m going to be posting this week, with tips and coping skills I have learned (from professionals for the […]

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